Tiff’s manuel on dating Tiff #2: Quit calling me.
I don’t feel like I have to owe an explanation to a guy that I don’t want to talk to anymore if I’ve only met him once or twice.
You see there was this guy I met a club a while ago who I thought was uber sexy, and a terrific dancer (if I might add). We talked on the phone a couple of days after we met, and well, it turns out that he was pretty dumb. That’s a turnoff, btw. I thought the blandness of our conversation on the phone was a clear sign that we didn’t match, so I didn’t expect him to call me again.
Well he did eventually. I screened his call, because it’s the only rational thing I could do. Based on the level of our relationship—which was zero (there was no relationship to begin with)—I was not obligated to inform him we’re not compatible with each other and that we shouldn’t talk anymore.
Yeah it would totally suck to find out that you’ve just been rejected, but since there was absolutely no commitment involved, you’re supposed to bust a Jay-Z move and brush that dirt off yo shoulders. Move on to something else and if I decide to call you back, fine, that’s great.
This guy ended up calling my phone every other day for about two weeks, and I never answered once.
Exactly what part are you not able to grasp? If I’m not taking any of your calls, it has to mean something. If I like you, I will return your call-yeah, no shit, right? It should be a no brainer but it’s not for some, unfortunately. I’m not some vulnerable kidnapped victim who’s locked in a dark basement all day anxiously waiting for someone from the outside world to call me. But apparently, psycho over here has no commonsense whatsoever, and decides to abuse my number as if he was trying to sell me Viagra.
Fuck that, I’m not down with creepy callers and I’m not down with Viagra either.
Sometimes persistence isn’t the best idea to follow. You just gotta let some shit slide, or else your reputation gets dumped into the abyss of humiliation, where the rest of the creeps go.
“I don’t feel like I have to owe an explanation to a guy that I don’t want to talk to anymore if I’ve only met him once or twice.”
Too bad that’s how some guys treat girls that really like them. However, I totally agree. I know I am never persistent when I like a guy. Only because I know that I really wouldn’t want anyone to call me constantly. I hate sleeping only to wake up the next morning and find 10-18 missed calls from the SAME DAMN NUMBER. If I didn’t pick up on the first 17 consecutive calls there is a 100% chance I am screening calls or I was sleeping. Sorry, last sentence was just the story of my life.
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Did you really think someone as dumb as a brick would get the hint?! You said it yourself missy! Don’t be surprised!
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how come you didn’t tell me you moooveeeddd. i’m about to move too though actually (websites). i think sarah.urbanique.net is shutting down sometime soon.
sup sup. clingy guys are such a turn off. but i think it’s hard to find guys who are into casual relationships and also NOT complete jerks.
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lol, I think it’s funny when a guy can’t take a hint.
His persistence doesn’t change my mind.
it just makes him seem desperate.
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wow this is too funny, because the exact same thing happened to me. Sometimes people couldn’t catch a hint if you slapped it across their forehead. Men are so damn dense. You’re making me want to blog about my experience. lol
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aahhahaa sounds like my ex
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#3: I’m moving to chicago in a month or so. Let’s get lunch
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hahaha man you seriously have this entry on POINT. I totally agree with you on this one lol. I’m surprised he didn’t get the hint sooner…
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HUHLOLZ, I get what you mean and I KNOW what you mean. But instead of persistent calling, it was text messaging. Which is just as annoying!
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What’s wrong with Viagra? Old dudes need it to please their women.
You got something against oldies knockin’ boots?
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oh snap!
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