Comments on: Can a guy and a girl really be friends?

By: mariel

mariel — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 20:00:51 +0000

i absolutely think a girl and guy and can be best friends
i have two best guy friends,
oh my gosh, i love those boys so much, you have no idea.
and i always tell them, you guys have no clue how much i love you!
and they say it to me too
but we’re just friends,
and i don’t like neither of them as more than a friend
they’re more like my big brothers

By: amy

amy — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 20:44:00 +0000

nope. absolutely cannot be “just friends.” one side is always potentially interested, was interested, or could be interested in the other side.

i’ve talked to all my guy friends about this and they all agree that being “just friends” is bullshit. hahah

By: Wendy

Wendy — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 06:03:07 +0000

I find it really hard to be friends with guys as well. Well, I can be ‘normal’ friends with them, but I can’t get too close. When I get too close, either of us will bound to end up with the wrong idea about each other. So right now, the safest is to treat my hubby as my best friend. Heh.

By: Helga

Helga — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 14:15:38 +0000

I’m just friends with a lot of guys but I find that I still have to be somewhat cautious when socializing with them. I’m totally secure of the fact that we’re all really just friends but I have weird ass body language and I get kinda amorous when I’m drunk (heh) and shit, I’d feel sorry for the guy if I send him the wrong message. Imagine the awkwardness!

By: Ray

Ray — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 01:43:15 +0000

I think they can,
^_^

90% of my friends are girls hahaha maybe it’s cause i went to FIT in new york and the school population of girls is like 86% hahaha, im also friends with my ex as well but that’s complicated … hahaha

By: jen

jen — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 23:04:54 +0000

This is a really hard question. Hehe. I kept coming on, about to comment, type something out, then a thought pops in my head, so I delete the comment and think and ponder. Then leave your site. Then come back…think up something..type, delete, leave.

So I guess in my case, depends on the guy, and depends on the girl. Because I’m friends with guys who have girlfriends and I call them and message them quite often and I have no feelings for them, but I know sometimes feelings can also start up from that, if it gets too far. Although, if I had a boyfriend and he had girl-friends from before we got together, it would be ok, but I’d be a little insecure if he started making alllll these new girl-friends after. But not exactly sure why, if they’re just friends.

So yeah, I’m sticking to: It all depends.

By: Leanne

Leanne — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 21:54:11 +0000

i agree with you, it does sound kind of sus when he asked for your number and then calls you because he wants to say hi, even though he has a gf. :/

i think guys and girls and girls can be friends, but for some friend relationships there’s a lot of history to get to that “stable friendship” point, like i have had a few guy friends, where 1. i thought i liked them for a bit, then got over it or 2. they liked me and then got over it. do you get me? it’s like there’s a little interlude where suddenly you “think” or actually do develop some kind of crush for the person but then it goes away and you continue on being friends. then there are guys who you’ve been friends forever and don’t know it any other way.

By: sarah

sarah — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 06:51:31 +0000

hi got here thru Katy ^^

i had a guy bestfriend since middle school up to the early days of college. we were pretty close..til on our 2nd year in college when he started to act weird around me up until he confessed that he’s into me…it was the end of our friendship…he’s a great guy but i’ve always looked at him as a friend (or a brother) and after that confession, i always felt unsure and uncomfortable when we’re alone…its sad though cuz we eventually lost contact up until 2 years ago when i found out from a common friend that he got married.

By: Destiny

Destiny — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 04:51:08 +0000

That is kinda …. blah??? My hubby tends to do that, he started with this one chick he met at the clubs through a friend and she flies back and forth from here to Toronto for school, and then they started talking on FB and then msn, and then texting, and I actually got really offended, because I don’t even know her even though I met her a few times. It’s just all out of respect, and if a guy is attached, and you haven’t known him for that long, it’s best to just keep a distance before you get labeled something you shouldn’t. Good for you for deleting the number!! Hahaha… sorry for my rants, sometimes guys have this stupid thoughts that those things or actions are acceptable.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 04:42:20 +0000

It is rare, but their are always exceptions to everything. Straight Guys and Straight Girls are usually friends when they have already had a relationship and are now ex’s. haha. Straight Girls have Gay Boyfriends/Husbands now all the time, that’s nothing new.